How To Take Charge Of Your Life and Make Things Happen
After reading a few self help books or listening to a few episodes of Oprah, most women realize that in order to change things in your life you need to take control of it. But taking charge of your life might seem to be a bit hard at first, because life might appear to be out of our control. But there’s an easy short cut to taking control of your current circumstances and steering them into a new direction: a direction that serves you and empowers you. This short cut might seem completely unrelated to your current unfavorable circumstances, but once you apply it in your life you will see how quickly things will begin to shift and the things you want will just start to unfold for you. The trick is to let go of your old story.
Everyone does it on occasion: we tell people our story and make ourselves sound pitiful. Sometimes we do it because we want advice, we want to be comforted, or we want people to know where we are coming from. But the truth of the matter is that our story does not define us and really doesn’t serve our highest good either. But how exactly do you know if you carrying around a victim’s story and if you are, how do you stop telling over and over again? The first step is to recognize the moments where you tell your story, then to just stop telling this bad rep of yours, and finally to replace it with a new and fulfilling story. Let’s see how we can do that. Continue reading »
